Remember back in ye olden days of a few months ago when the biggest celebrity drama the world had to deal with was Evan Felker leaving is wife for Miranda Lambert? Weird, wild times!

Well in a shook-inducing update, Evan's wife Staci Felker just hit up Instagram and revealed that he tried getting back in touch with her recently. And she was happy to let him back into her life, except whoops—he completely ghosted her again while she was in the hospital.

Staci accused Evan of "ghosting and just very real #psychologicalwarfare" in her post, also saying:

"A man that I perfected homemade chicken soup for when he was sick, cared for him through soooo many sweating miserable days coming off benders decided to come calling when I was happy last week. Too happy. Riding and then at the beach with my girls. How dare I smile after all he did to try to break me? I took those calls, because that’s what a wife does. I’m still his wife. I’ve done everything to be a good one because deep down I thought it might change things. Less than a week later, I was sent to the hospital and couldn’t reach him. That’s not a real man. That’s not a country boy and certainly no cowboy. Not a husband I’ll ever take back because I was scared and he was gone. Again."
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Yikes. And by the way, if you need a little background, back in April Us Weekly reported that Lambert and Felker got to know each other on tour and things just “happened” between them. Which, um, sure, okay.