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Hailey Hildenbrand and L.J. Benet: A Dazzling Winter Wedding

Hailey Hildenbrand returned home to Lancaster County for her wedding to L.J. Benet, who she happened to meet at a church service in California. Held just ahead of the Christmas holidays, the wedding echoed the warmth and cheer of the season and reflected the love that enveloped the venue that evening. 

The Conestoga River, which flows past Riverdale Manor, provided the backdrop for Hailey and L.J.’s first-look photos. The property features several outdoor natural areas/gardens for ceremonies, an all-seasons pavilion, a 19th-century farmhouse with a bridal suite and groom’s room, a garden terrace (with a two-sided fireplace) and a ballroom with a soaring ceiling and a plethora of windows and French doors. Riverdale Manor is also the home of Thyme & Seasons Catering.

The camera’s clicks and flashes that come with a wedding day can unnerve some brides, but not Hailey Hildenbrand. She was ready to pose for the camera. As a professional model who has taken part in countless photo shoots for major brands like Skechers, L’Oréal and Corvette, the cover girl from Strasburg made friends with the camera years ago. Discovered by a model talent scout while playing volleyball for her Lampeter-Strasburg High School team, Hailey has been in front of the camera since she was 17.

When her career lured Hailey to Miami and then to Los Angeles for more opportunities, she met the one: L.J. Benet. Growing up as a child actor in the San Fernando Valley of California, the professional musician met his bride-to-be in 2018, when Hailey, who was then based in Miami, was visiting California for a modeling assignment. Hailey happened to attend a church service where L.J. is an active congregant, using his musical talents to praise and serve. They never stopped seeing each other and their engagement was made official while celebrating Christmas 2020 in Lancaster County with Hailey’s family.

Two pairs of shoes were needed, one for walking down the aisle and the other for dancing the night away. Mid-reception, Hailey would step out of her Badgley Mischka stilettos and into sparkling high-top sneakers.

One year later, on a crisp and clear December night, Hailey and L.J. stood before 100 family and friends at Riverdale Manor, a charming event venue situated along the Conestoga River in Lancaster. Their choice of venue was one of many serendipitous pieces of the wedding-planning puzzle that fell into place. “It landed in our laps,” says Hailey. “We saw Riverdale Manor online and then visited in person; we loved the location for both the ceremony and the reception.”

Hailey’s mother, Jessie, says December was important as a wedding date, as it would allow friends and family to attend, including those driven by sports schedules. “The matron of honor’s husband – a cousin – is a professional baseball player, and Hailey’s brother, Hunter, is very involved in Lampeter-Strasburg’s sports, including football playoffs. We’re all local,” notes Jessie, “except Hailey.”

Jessie Hildenbrand helps her daughter into the dress that Hailey tracked down in Australia.

Strasburg was well-represented at the wedding, but so was California. All of L.J.’s groomsmen were from the Los Angeles church he attends. Officiating was Corey Martin of Orange County. Hmmm, Martin – a common Lancaster County name, you say? It’s not a coincidence – Corey is originally from Washington Boro and was an associate pastor at Threshold Church in Lancaster, before setting out for California. He and his family hosted Hailey during her first months of getting settled in California.

The ceremony began as a string quartet’s harmonies wafted to the open rafter beams that were wrapped in tiny lights. Crystal chandeliers added a note of elegance to the setting.  Floating candles in glass cylinder vases dotted the greenery-lined aisle as mother-of-the-bride, Jessie, made her entrance in a charcoal sequined sheath.

The Hildenbrand and Benet families pose for a celebratory photo.

“Take a deep breath, you’re in the moment,” Hailey thought as she and her father, Ron, began that memorable walk down the aisle. Hailey wore a backless gown that had a story all its own. 

While shopping in Orange County, Hailey found the perfect minimal-look dress, but unfortunately it was not her size. After three unsuccessful attempts to order it, she realized the gown stood little chance of making it to the wedding in time. Still, she made one last attempt and went online to stillwhite.com and discovered the dress – in her measurements – was available in Australia. Hailey had her dress! 

The all-seasons pavilion was the scene of Hailey and L.J.’s ceremony.

Before making their vows, Corey asked the couple to turn and face their guests – a “wow” realization for the couple, “seeing everyone who cares about us and what we are doing with our lives,” Hailey recalls. “This is a holy moment,” the officiant reminded everyone, “and what a privilege.” 

Hailey and L.J. composed their own emotion-filled vows, which included the promise, “l will choose you every single day.”

Simple bouquets of white roses stood out against the black gowns Hailey’s attendants wore.

The reception was just a few steps away inside the ballroom, where a live Christmas tree was decorated with wedding favors for the guests. L.J.’s talent as a musician and songwriter took the spotlight as Hailey entered the room to his original song written for her, That Girl. 

In Lancaster County fashion, guests were lavished with an abundant buffet of a raw bar of oysters, shrimp and clams, corn-on-the-cob, farm-to-table veggies, carving and pasta stations and, of course, cake and other confections. 

Ron Hildenbrand escorts Hailey down the aisle.

Following toasts (the best man’s in the form of a rap song) and dancing, guests re-energized with a late-night, salty-sweet treat from a vintage popcorn machine. 

After dancing the night away, Hailey and L.J. exited under a canopy of guests waving sparklers and were whisked off to a nearby Airbnb in Hunter’s Jeep – a chilly ride, but who cares – they’re in love!

Hailey and L.J. wrote their own vows for the ceremony that was presided over by Corey Martin, who grew up in Washington Boro, was an associate pastor at Threshold Church in Lancaster, and now lives in Southern California.

 

Hailey and L.J. make their way into the 19th-century farmhouse that features a bridal suite and groom’s room.

 

How did you do that?

Hailey and L.J.’s wedding included elements that are in vogue and in style.  

That’s So ’70s!

A favorite color scheme from the ’70s – black and white – is back in vogue for modern-day weddings.

The black-and-white color scheme that was so popular in the ’70s has staged a comeback. Hailey’s attendants were dressed in long, black, off-the-shoulder gowns and carried white flowers. L.J., who wore a black tuxedo, and his groomsmen, who were attired in black suits and white shirts, echoed the color scheme, which was also reflected in the invitation suite, menu cards and reception décor.  

Floral Statement

Baby’s breath is having a moment and the ceremony and reception areas were awash in clouds of it. White roses, eucalyptus and ruscus also figured into the floral designs.  

Two Dresses

Two trends stand out in this photo: clouds of baby’s breath and a more casual reception dress (and shoes).

A bride wearing two looks on her wedding day is still on trend. Mid-way through the reception, Hailey changed into a satiny halter-style gown (and sequined sneakers) that was reminiscent of old Hollywood glam … or perhaps the dress Meghan Markle wore to her wedding reception.    

Engagement Photo Shoot

Hailey and L.J. spent a fun and romantic day at Joshua Tree National Park in California, where they commemorated their engagement with a photo shoot.

The two also celebrated their engagement with a photo shoot – with their photographer, Danielle J. Norton – at a place that is special to them, Joshua Tree National Park, which is east of L.A. 

Naked Cakes

Naked cakes remain a favorite wedding-cake style for the younger generation due to their minimalistic design and versatility from a decorating perspective.

The naked cake has become a favorite of younger generations who prefer a more minimalistic approach to wedding cake design. In the case of naked cakes, frosting just “kisses” the layers of the cake, allowing the color of the cake to be visible. The beauty of a naked cake is that it can deliver a chic, sophisticated and even rustic look to the festivities. They can be embellished with flowers, greenery, seashells … the choice is yours!  

Lights, Camera, Action!

Couples are documenting their big days with more than photography. L.J., for example, wrote a song and created a video that conveyed his falling in love with Hailey. The two also starred in a short film that documented their wedding day – start to finish – that was created by Visual Rose Films. (Both are embedded below.) 

 

The Wedding of Mr. and Mrs. LJ Benet from Visual Rose on Vimeo.

 

 

Signature Drinks

Signature drinks are a whimsical addition to a celebration and Hailey and L.J.’s choices revealed their playful sides. 

Spicy Wife, Spicy Life
• Tajín Clásico Seasoning Rimmer
• 1.5 oz. tequila
• 1 oz. fresh lime juice
• .5 oz. orange juice
• .25 oz. agave/simple syrup
California Cowboy
• 1.5 oz. bourbon
• 1 oz. fresh lemon juice
• .5 oz. maple syrup
• cinnamon stick garnish

Nontraditional Guestbooks

L.J.’s love of music was conveyed through a unique guestbook that saw guests offer their best wishes on an LP record album.

WeddingTok reports that traditional guestbooks are old hat and couples are now asking guests to convey their best wishes via voicemail (recorded on a vintage rotary phone), on puzzle pieces and game boards and on holiday ornaments. Hailey and L.J. had guests sign a vinyl record album.

 

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Why We Love Lancaster

If you’re following us on Instagram (@lancastercountymag), you’ve seen our Field Trip Friday posts. Every Friday, our field trips took us across Lancaster County. We visited roadside stands, covered bridges and dog-friendly business. We talked to all generations as we asked the kids at Faith Factory Learning Center and the older kids at Pleasant View Communities for their opinions on the best thing about summer. In the fall, we visited Elizabethtown College to get the students’ opinions on all-things autumn. We also had fun dressing up at the Millersville University Costume Rental Shop and got a sneak preview of some holiday home tours. We met a lot of wonderful people along the way and at each stop, we asked them why they love Lancaster County.


The top response was the people. We met Judy from Mount Joy while she was volunteering at the Elizabethtown Public Library. She told us about the warm welcome she received when she moved here in 2015. Sarah from Millersville told us she loved Lancaster because it is a “friendly place to live.”


Food was another popular response. Melissa from Vigi’s Parties was shopping at a local farm stand when we spoke with her. Melissa loves the “farmstands for the best produce for my catering company.” Mike from Akron was at the same stand where he was purchasing whoopie pies – so of course that popular Lancaster County treat was his answer!


Mary from Leola was acting as a tour guide for her friend Toni, who was visiting from Mountaintop. While Toni said she loves to visit here, Mary said, “I wouldn’t want to live anywhere else.” And we agree!


Check out the rest of the responses below.


Would you like to share why you love Lancaster? Please post on Instagram and tag us!

Oh, Baby!

What does a baby shower look like from the viewpoint of a wedding and branding photographer – and event planner at heart – who has an obsession with details and all things elegant and romantic? As you can see, Kelsey Strothers’ wish list for how her own baby shower would look, perfectly echoed her favorite things – including the color blue – and elicited plenty of oohs and aahs from guests. 

A stylized chalkboard
announces the day’s big event – Kelsey’s baby shower!

When family and friends approached Kelsey with the idea of planning a baby shower for her, Kelsey wanted to play an active role in designing the look of the event. Because she specializes in wedding and branding photography (with an emphasis on natural lighting), Kelsey was acquainted with vendors who could bring her vision to reality. 

At the top of the to-do list was finding a venue and Kelsey immediately knew that White Gables Garden House, located in Cochranville and owned by Aimee Weaver, would be perfect, due to the fact that it’s “airy, light-filled and dreamy.”  

Aimee Weaver’s White Gables Garden House is perfect for events such as showers, birthday/anniversary parties and even corporate functions. It can comfortably seat 40 guests and is fully furnished. Kelsey loves it for the natural light and garden views.

As Kelsey and her husband, Zach, would be welcoming a son, the color scheme had to include blue. For this element, she turned to Caroline’s Rentals, which supplied the vintage-inspired goblets, as well as complementary gold candlesticks and chargers. Paper products and linens added yet another touch of blue to the décor. The detail-oriented Kelsey even made sure to wear a blue dress for the occasion! 

The touch of blue also made its way onto the menu. Kim’s Bakery in Mohnton designed the delicious cupcakes that were iced with blue frosting. The bakery also replicated a baby-boy-themed sugar cookie Kelsey had seen online that would serve as party favors. The menu also featured a bountiful charcuterie board created by Cypress and Thyme Events in Honey Brook.   

With her work done, Kelsey was ready to sit back and visit with family and friends, open gifts and enjoy being the guest of honor. But who would take the all-important pictures? “Kelsey handed the camera over to me and told me to take pictures,” says Olivia Rae Craft, one of Kelsey’s BFFs. Kelsey then took over post-production duties and posted the pictures to social media before baby Lane’s arrival on November 15.    

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Worth Celebrating!

With the pandemic in our rear-view mirrors, we’ve been celebrating life’s special moments in grand ways. We invited readers to share their milestones and received photos from birthday and anniversary parties, weddings, showers, nonprofit events, awards honorees, business owners and more. 

Colleen and Kevin McKain 

The McKains celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary with friends and family at The Vineyard & Brewery at Hershey on July 30. Their story began with a blind date that was arranged by friends. “I never was on a boat or water-skied,” Colleen recalls of their introduction. “I did both that day and he still called me!” They were married two years later on June 19, 1982, at the Evangelical Free Church of Hershey. The McKains live in Elizabethtown – “The same home when we got married,” notes Colleen. They are the parents of Wade, who lives in Maryland with his wife, Tina, and their son, Carter, and Kylie, who lives in Pittsburgh with her significant other, Matthew Compton, and the McKain’s first-born grandson, Wesley. Vineyardathershey.com.

Lancaster Society of Human Resource Management

At the society’s membership kickoff – HR Rocks – on November 2, the featured speaker was Tracy Cutler of the Lancaster County Community Foundation, who presented a program on 2022’s ExtraGive, which was held November 18 and raised more than $10 million for community organizations. Held at Decades, HR Rocks featured fun and games and most importantly, “raised” 67 pounds of Thanksgiving donations for the Lancaster County Food Hub. For membership information, email info@lancastershrm.org. Decadeslancaster.com.

Lionel Adriano

Lionel celebrated being part of the cast of Servant, a supernatural horror-thriller series from Tony Basgallop and M. Night Shyamalan that streams on Apple TV. (Season 4 premieres January 13.) The storyline follows a Philadelphia couple who are in mourning after a tragedy that ultimately creates a rift in their marriage and opens the door for a mysterious force to enter their lives. Lionel (pictured above, far left) is excited that the opportunity now qualifies him to become a member of the Screen Actors Guild. 

Lionel is also celebrating the fact that his business – Revolve Atelier – survived the pandemic and is thriving. Located in Neffsville, the hair and makeup salon/barbershop opened its doors in 2019. “It’s been a challenging few years,” he admits. “But we survived the shutdowns and restrictions. This year [2022], we became completely debt-free!” Find them on Facebook or Instagram @revolve.atelier.  

Lorah’s Handmade Chocolates

Maria Lorah Harvey took a big step last year by opening a retail store at Bricker Village on March 31. Lorah’s is a family enterprise that was founded by Ruth Lorah in 1970. Ruth learned the art of making chocolates from her aunt and uncle, George and Effie Miller, who resided in Denver. Maria then assumed the role of family chocolatier, buying the business in 2009 and naming it Lorah’s Handmade Chocolates. The emphasis on handmade – using the freshest ingredients – remains a hallmark of the business. The made-from-scratch menu features bark, caramel, cream, ganache, truffle, cordial/shot, dried fruit and nut varieties. The success of the shop has already prompted an expansion – it doubled in size last month and includes an area dedicated to The Market at Lorah’s, where you will find treats from other local artisans, bakers and businesses. Lorahschocolates.com. 

Abigail Savicky and Chad Zeamer

Abigail and Chad, who were wed on November 1, held their reception at The Booking House in Manheim. According to Sarah Klausmair, who is a friend of the couple’s, “It was a beautiful wedding and wonderful way to celebrate their love. Not only were they surrounded by friends and family, but Chad surprised Abby with a new addition to the family – a golden retriever puppy they named Booker in honor of their wedding venue.” Thebookinghousemanheim.com. 

Rainbow’s End Youth Services (REYS)

Located in Mount Joy, REYS is a Christian youth center that celebrated its 40th anniversary in 2022. According to executive director, Cristina Paden, REYS has “faithfully reached local youth in Christian love and has provided spiritual direction, social support and academic assistance to hundreds of at-risk youth.” The milestone anniversary was celebrated on March 26 at Landis Hall at The Junction Center. Reys.org. 

Mid-Atlantic Regional Emmy Awards

It was meant to be! Joe Sanks, who is celebrating 40 years as a photojournalist and chief drone pilot (FAA-certified) with WGAL, attended the 40th Annual Mid-Atlantic Regional Emmy Awards, which was held at the Loews Philadelphia Hotel on October 1. Joe is pictured at the event with morning news anchor and Emmy winner, Katelyn Smith. WGAL took home three Emmys: Crime – News (Single Report), An Alternative Use of Force, Susan Shapiro, reporter; Historical/Cultural – News (Single Report), Uncovered History on Film, Katelyn Smith, reporter; and Promotion – News Program/PSA – Campaign, Olympic Memories, Gavin Liddick (producer), Ryan Peiffer (motion graphics), Mark Hernandez (producer) and Todd Bailey (producer). Wgal.com.  

Dave Kahling

Celebrating a milestone birthday – in Dave’s case, the big 5-0 – called for a celebration, so his girlfriend, Katie Smith, swung into action and planned a surprise birthday party at Per Diem, which is located in the Hotel Rock Lititz. “It’s two miles from our house and has become a favorite of ours,” she says of her choice of venue. “We like it for its great food, service and ambiance.”  

The party, which was held April 10, was a complete surprise and served as a family reunion of sorts, since Dave had not seen his mother, cousins or aunt in about a year. In the photo, Dave is pictured with (left to right) his aunt, Peg Dengler, and his cousins, Kim Dengler and Sharon Dengler Zimmerman. “It was a wonderful night  – we truly enjoyed ourselves – after all the stress and worry of Covid restrictions,” Katie reminisces. “His friends covered his car in posters in the parking lot while we were eating dessert.”

As for turning 50, Katie reports that “Dave claims he is still 25, so I would say he isn’t wild about admitting he is 50.” Perdiemlititz.com. 

Avery Williamson

Little Avery turned 3 on July 16 and her parents, Angela and Maurice Williamson, decided a party was in order. The festivities, which were held at the Williamsons’ home, included a guest list composed of family and close friends. Angela decided to amp up the menu and secured the services of the Little Cotton Cart and Pizza Tent. “I discovered Little Cotton Cart on Instagram,” Angela says of the service that touts its mission as “spreading a big pouf of joy” through cotton candy (six flavors served in classic paper cones, bags or fancy glasses). “It was wonderful, everyone enjoyed it,” Angela notes. As for Pizza Tent, the mobile, pop-up pizzeria (think wood-fired pizza oven on wheels) specializes in New York-style pizza. Catering small events such as Avery’s birthday party is Pizza Tent’s forte. Littlecottoncart.com and pizzatent.net.  

Rita Stebbins and Nick Biewen

You just never know when Cupid is going to work his magic! Lancaster native, Rita Stebbins, is a student at the University of New Mexico in Albuquerque. Nick, who is a native of Albuquerque and attends a community college in the area, was friends with students who lived across the hall from Rita and often visited them. Through her dorm neighbors, Rita got to know Nick and the rest, as they say, is history. 

The two eloped (crazy kids) on June 25 and were married in the desert by a “minister with a broken arm.” Witnesses included one of Rita’s sorority sisters and the minister’s wife. 

Jillian Legenstein and Ricky Cruz

Jillian and Ricky’s wedding, which was held at Riverdale Manor on September 10, celebrated a lifelong relationship that only promises to grow in love and devotion. The two met in elementary school and were instant friends. It grew more serious when they began dating in high school. As for the proposal, Covid was the culprit in causing Ricky to make a pivot. “He was planning a big proposal in front of both of our immediate families, but we were in the middle of Covid and we couldn’t all get together,” Jillian explains. Instead, he proposed at their home on July 27, 2020. “It was just us and our dog, Chandler,” Jillian recalls. “He didn’t want to wait any longer!” she adds of his proposal. Nonetheless, family got to celebrate the momentous occasion with them via FaceTime.  

 Jillian says the “best part of the wedding was our ceremony – the love we felt from each other and our family and friends who were there to celebrate with us, was truly special.” Riverdalemanor.com.

Savannah Graybill and Chris Strup

So, how does a girl from Denver (PA) meet a guy from Defiance, Ohio? Skeleton, the winter sport that involves “sledding” down a twisting, turning course of ice at breakneck speed, provided the introductions, as both were members of the the U.S. National Skeleton Team. Now retired, the two, who got to travel the world as members of Team USA, are pursuing new career paths and have decided to put down roots in Lancaster City. They made the plunge and became first-time homeowners, buying a house in the city, with help from realtor Matt Koch of Keller Williams Elite. Once the keys were theirs, they celebrated with a commemorative photo. “It ain’t official until it’s on the ’gram,” Savannah noted on her Instagram post in late September. Lancasterbeardedrealtor.com.   

Jocelyn Engle

Turning 40 was a piece of cake for Jocelyn, thanks to the party her sister/BFF, Janelle Benner, and her family held in her honor at their Lititz home on August 26. Surrounded by family and friends, Jocelyn felt loved and supported on her special day. Her next big hurdle: she qualified to run in the Boston Marathon this spring.  

YWCA Lancaster, Women of Achievement Awards

Sophie Yost

Each year, YWCA Lancaster honors women in the community who make a difference through helping to eliminate racism and gender inequality. The awards luncheon was held October 20 at the DoubleTree Lancaster. Those honored included (left to right): Dr. Sharee Livingston, DO FACOG, a physician at Patients R Waiting/UPMC; Salina Almanzar-Oree, who is the program coordinator at the Center for Creative Exploration at Pennsylvania College of Art & Design; Barbara Jean Ellis Wilson, the executive director of the Lancaster City Housing Authority; Kendra Wolfe, the founder and executive guide at Unique Lancaster Experiences; and Sophie Yost (Cheryl Gahring Young Person of Achievement), who as a student at Manheim Township High School was the founder of the Coalition for Social Justice, a founder/member of the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Board and was a national field director for the MyVote Project. She is a freshman at Duke University. Ywcalancaster.org. 

Tangles Salon

In celebrating Tangles’ 20th anniversary in 2022, owner Kristin Green gathered her staff for a commemorative photo. Kristin, who has been a stylist for 30-plus years, opened her salon in Lancaster City in 2002. Six years later, she and her husband, Bill, bought a property on Marietta Avenue in Rohrerstown that dates to the early 1900s. They devoted their time and talents to remodeling the one-time residence in order to transform it into an upscale salon. Twenty years later, Tangles is still going strong, having expanded its staff and its menu of services. Tangleslancaster.com. 

Anchor Lancaster

Founded in the 1980s, Anchor Lancaster’s first mission was to provide unsheltered people with a welcoming and safe environment by offering them a warm cup of coffee each weekday morning. Originally based at St. James Episcopal Church, the program grew to offer guests breakfast fare. In 2017, the program transitioned to a new home, First United Methodist Church in Lancaster, and within a year became a nonprofit organization that is now served by more than 150 volunteers. Services expanded to offering guests the use of shower facilities. As of late November, the tally for showers had reached 4,000. Bathing supplies are always accepted and appreciated. 

As you can imagine, Covid challenged Anchor Lancaster in numerous ways. Breakfast pivoted to take-out and fundraising events were curtailed. Executive Director Patty Eastep reports that Anchor Lancaster got back on track in 2022, with indoor seating returning for its breakfast service and its fundraising gala returning to the calendar on October 7. The gala, which was held at Bent Creek Country Club, was a huge success thanks to guests going above and beyond to support the silent and live auctions. Anchorlancaster.org.   

Resolve to Get Organized!

Each year at this time, we resolve to make positive changes in our lives. Without fail, getting organized figures into the Top 5 of New Year’s resolutions due in part to messy closets, packed garages, overflowing kitchen cabinets and cluttered basements. Where to start is always the dilemma. Fortunately, help is available as close by as Brownstown, from Victory Closets of Susquehanna Valley and KbE (Kitchens by Eileen).

One model room at KbE demonstrates how unused space can be transformed into a very organized dressing room by employing a Victory Closets system that can be easily reconfigured by the homeowners as their needs change. The color seen here is driftwood.

How many times have you stood in front of your closet that is brimming with clothing and thought to yourself, “I have nothing to wear.” Think of it as not being able to see the trees because of the forest you’ve created. 

Do you have a friend who habitually arrives late because she “couldn’t find anything to wear”? You may joke that her tardiness is related to her personality or lack of time-management skills, but the real culprit probably begins with her very disorganized closet. Or, have you been late for an appointment because the dress you wanted to wear was a wrinkled mess and required ironing? (A packed closet can impact the condition and longevity of your clothing.)  

Often times such scenarios are related to the fact that our closets are filled with items that are out of season,  out of style or are several sizes too small or large (most women admit to having wardrobes in three different sizes). 

Being disorganized seeps into other areas of our homes. Have you reached into the back of a kitchen cabinet and pulled out an ingredient for a dish you are making only to discover it’s five years old? Are you constantly searching for your dog’s leash for that 6 a.m. walk? When was the last time you parked your car in the garage? Having to remove snow from your car at 7 a.m. is not fun. 

Such scenarios are not good ways to start the day, as they can make you late for work, an appointment, a restaurant reservation or a family function. Preparing dinner for guests can throw you into a tailspin if it requires an unexpected trip to the grocery store. The roots of such problems can be traced back to a closet or cabinet that is lacking in organization. 

The Victory Closets of Susquehanna Valley sales and installation team (left to right), Jonah, Jen and Jake.

Believe it or not, the chaotic state of the storage areas in your home can weigh on your mind and contribute to mental health issues such as stress, anxiety and even depression. It can even lead to unnecessary spending –
how many times have you bought something only to find a similar item hiding in your closet? Being unorganized can upset family dynamics and even lead to isolation, as such a lifestyle isn’t conducive to entertaining friends and family. 

Next to a cup of coffee, an organized home may provide the key to starting your day on the best foot. It begins with a streamlined closet. Choosing what to wear will become easier and you’ll look more polished and put together. You’ll be able to better concentrate on your plans or tasks for the day. Best of all, you’ll arrive on time. 

Victory Closets 

Aaron Riddle, the president of KbE (Kitchens by Eileen), became acquainted with Victory Closets through participating in regional home shows. “For some reason, we always ended up right next to them,” he explains. As KbE expanded into full home remodels, homeowners invariably expressed an interest in customized closets. “We used a couple of systems but found them to be challenging to work with,” he notes. In addition, the systems were not consumer-friendly. “Our customers couldn’t reconfigure the systems themselves; we’d have to go back and do it,” Aaron recalls. 

Impressed with Victory Closets, Aaron asked the company’s owner, Greg Ahart, if he would be interested in collaborating on some of KbE’s projects. As the company is based in Boyertown, Berks County, Ahart readily agreed to the request. 

KbE addressed home office organization through the addition of built-in cabinetry in this space that was claimed from a very large laundry room.

The premise of Victory Closets was launched in 2013, when Ahart tapped into his building and cabinetmaking background to create a wall-mounted sports-equipment storage system for his own use. He soon found his project progressing into a new type of custom closet storage system that can be reconfigured and used for any number of storage scenarios. The system is designed to evolve as your needs change – shelves and hanging sections can easily be reconfigured and other elements can be added so you are not limited by your original design.

Ahart spent the next year engineering and perfecting the system before debuting it at the 2014 Philly Home show where it received extremely positive feedback from attendees. He then pursued and received a U.S. patent in 2015 for his unique product.  

Ultimately, Aaron opened Victory Closets of Susquehanna Valley as a licensee, selling and installing the Victory Closets system along with his existing KbE kitchen and bath remodeling business. 

This kitchen pantry utilized the Victory Closets system to provide dedicated spaces for essentials such as paper products, as well as for small appliances and entertaining elements that are not used on a regular basis.

Aaron was excited that he could now offer clients and home builders such as the Custom Home Group and Pine Hill Builders custom-closet systems at an affordable price. “I’m always surprised to go into high-end homes and only see standard wire shelving in the closets,” he says. Victory Closets and KbE have also partnered with Thaddeus Stevens College of Technology students on their Parade of Homes entries. 

Clients love the look of the system, which is available in white, driftwood and vintage colors. Rods, drawer pulls and accessories are available in rubbed-bronze or brushed-nickel finishes. 

Optional elements include glide-out wire baskets, hampers, two-tier jewelry drawers, belt/scarf and tie racks, valet rods and more. “You don’t see any metal pins, either,” Aaron remarks. “The result is a more polished, custom look.” Aaron’s wife and the company’s operations manager, Esther Riddle, likes the practicality of the system. “It’s suspended and doesn’t go to the floor, so it doesn’t impact your flooring or baseboards and makes replacing the flooring much easier,” she notes. 

Another plus is the fact that should you move, you can take the system with you. However, that may prove to be impossible since buyers love such amenities and will probably write into the contract that the closets remain in place. Tune into a show such as Love It or List It (HGTV) and inevitably the party who wants to sell names a lack of closet space as a reason why the house no longer suits his or her needs. As for the party who wants to stay put, his or her wish list seems to always include adding a spacious, walk-in closet in the primary suite. 

A Pandemic Phenomenon 

Incredibly, the pandemic only drove interest in the closet system. “People were home and cleaning out closets,” says Aaron. “They began to make lists of what works and what doesn’t. Their remodeling goals always seemed to address increased storage and bringing organization to their lives.” Business boomed. 

Fortunately, no matter the need for organization, whether it’s in a bedroom, the kitchen – “Everyone wants a pantry,” Aaron notes – garage, basement, mud room or rec room, there is an organization solution. For example, Esther reports that empty nesters who are staying in their homes are creating the ultimate indulgence by converting unused bedrooms into large walk-in closets complete with chandeliers, wallpaper, storage islands and other conveniences. “The systems work equally as well in standard reach-in closets,” Aaron adds.  

The building/remodeling industry is addressing consumers’ desire for organized homes. In bathrooms – such as one KbE remodeled – the vanity is outfitted with drawers and cabinets that provide shelving.

The home building and remodeling industry is also taking notice of the consumer’s desire to get organized. On the KbE side of the business with its custom kitchens and baths, Aaron notes, “Cabinetry is better designed and much more functional now.” Features such as appliance garages help to keep coffee makers, instant pots, mixers and other appliances out of sight but easily accessible, which contributes to clutter-free counters. Pull-out spice racks add convenience to the cooking process. In bathrooms, vanities now feature pull-out drawers (equipped with electrical outlets and organizational canisters), as well as cabinets lined with shelves that are more conducive to organization.  Built-ins and cabinetry are also in demand to make home offices more organized and professional looking. 

“Being organized can change your life,” Aaron says. He speaks from experience, as KbE recently put the finishing touches on their new headquarters, where model rooms allow visitors to see products that address organization, while private offices enable designers and other personnel to be creative and simply breathe. “Before, we had eight people working out of one office. It was becoming a problem,” he says of trying to make a 100-year-old building meet the needs of the tech-driven 21st century. “Plus, it had no storage, so we can definitely relate to the problems our customers are having.” 

For more information, visit kitchensbyeileen.com and victoryclosets.com. Visit their showroom at 4224 Oregon Pike, Brownstown.

How Do You Like Them Apples?

After observing the judging of baked and canned goods at the Solanco and Ephrata fairs a few years ago, I wanted to follow the process to the state level – chiefly, the apple pie contest, whose entrants are winners of blue ribbons at local fairs. In Harrisburg, the best of the best throw down their heralded apple pie recipes and engage in a competition that’s as delicious as it sounds.

An apple pie baked by Deb Martin Berkoski. Brimming with apples (and not filling), this pie was baked perfectly. The sliced apples are soft with a fine tooth. Sweet notes of cinnamon and brandy define the flaky, buttery crust. The caramel isn’t overpowering or super sweet, but is chewy.

Blue Ribbon Apple Pie Contest

The Annual Blue Ribbon Apple Pie Contest is a 34-year-long staple of the Pennsylvania Farm Show, which is held every January at the Farm Show Complex & Expo Center in Harrisburg. To qualify for the Pennsylvania Farm Show, amateur bakers of Pennsylvania residency must win first-place honors in the Blue Ribbon Apple Pie category of local fairs. 

Pies must be baked from scratch in toto: “All ingredients and decorations must be edible,” and “at least 60% apples in the filling.” Winning at multiple fairs doesn’t give you a leg up on the competition: each entrant can enter only one pie. Recipes must be supplied for the pie and pie crust, listing preparation instructions with all ingredients, including quantities.

The floor of the Pennsylvania Farm Show Complex & Expo Center in 2019.

Judging at both the local and state level is based on a 100-point scale distributed across five criteria. They include flavor (30 points); filling, with attention paid to consistency, doneness, moistness and flavor (25 points); crust, based on color, flavor, texture and doneness (20 points); overall appearance (15 points); and creativity (10 points). The top three places are awarded $500, $250 and $100 prizes respectively, with the top five places receiving rosette ribbons.

The Martin Dynasty

Through exploring the baking skills that are needed to compete at the state level, two names repeatedly surfaced: Debra Martin Berkoski and her mother, Dorothy M. Martin, both of Conestoga. Together, the pair have won the Blue Ribbon Apple Pie Contest in Harrisburg four times, while earning countless ribbons in categories ranging from shoofly pie to canned goods. (Their talents also extend to floral arrangements and wreath-making.) “We don’t compete with each other,” says Deb. “We compete together.” Dorothy’s expertise centers on having an understanding of the fundamentals of baking. On the other hand, Deb likes to push boundaries. “Every fair has a Deb rule,” she explains.

Deb consults Betty Groff’s recipe, “Apple Pie With Caramel Crumb Topping” from Up Home Down Home Cookbook, to create the crumble for her pie.

Deb won the Blue Ribbon Apple Pie contest first in 2001, then again in 2010. Dorothy won the Blue Ribbon in 2005, and again in 2014, a year in which Deb placed third in baking with a different variety of apples. Their baking success extends beyond apple pies. For example, Deb won best shoofly pie five years in a row. 

Ahead of the 2023 Pennsylvania Farm Show, Deb entered an apple pie at the 2022 Denver Fair and came away with the blue ribbon. “So I am off to the 2023 Farm Show,” she noted, relieved that she earned the requisite blue ribbon early in the season and didn’t have to undergo the stress of chasing after the award as fair season waned.

While the competition is hot on the state level, Deb is quick to underscore the fact that it definitely has a friendly side, which has fostered a sense of community among Pennsylvania’s bakers. “If I am beaten fairly, I will cheer you on,” says Deb. 

Cherry Hill Orchards

When I first reached out to Deb with the premise of following her Blue Ribbon Apple Pie journey to the Pennsylvania Farm Show, she insisted we begin at Cherry Hill Orchards. Deb arrived ahead of me on a day in November 2021, in order to talk with the new owners and caretakers of Cherry Hill Orchards, brothers Corey and Craig McCleaf. Corey had taken ownership from Tom Haas a year and a half prior, and Deb had already connected on a personal level with the family. It was a continuation of the life-long relationship she had nurtured with this orchard and the folks who dedicate themselves to growing, selling and enjoying apples. It’s not a stretch to say she’s connected to the “core” of her ingredients.

Deb with Cherry Hill Orchards owner, Corey McCleaf (left), and his brother, Craig McCleaf. Corey took ownership of the orchards in the spring of 2020.

Folks are often eager to learn where their food comes from and the next level of that understanding is developing a bit of a relationship with growers. Deb’s baking skillset is complemented by her investment in learning about producers and their harvest. 

A tasty apple begins with the soil quality, paired with growing conditions that offer the right amount of temperatures, rainfall and crucially, periods of dry weather to sweeten the fruit. As Cherry Hill is located near the Susquehanna and Conestoga rivers, the climate suits the orchard well. 

Deb hand-selects Northern Spy apples at Cherry Hill Orchards. Northern Spy is a top variety for baking apple pies.

Tapping into the knowledge of Tom Haas and now the McCleaf brothers accounts for Deb’s first step to creating an award-winning pie. It starts with an understanding of seasonal quality – when it comes to being the best in the state, those ingredients need to be delicious. 

Growers who know what you are after from a taste and texture perspective can quickly make recommendations. In Deb’s case, they understand she’s looking for choice apples with the right moisture content, flavor and ripeness – not only during the fall fair season but ahead of the state competition in early January. Sourcing apples from the same trees and bins as everyone else, Deb selected Northern Spy apples for her next pie.

A rosette Deb created using an apple.

“All the apples we bake with for competition have come from Cherry Hill,” says Deb. “They have grown the apples for four state-winning apple pies. No other orchard can [make that claim],” she continues. “The orchard is about five miles from my home. The new owners grew up in Adams County,” she says of prime apple country in Pennsylvania. “They have been very good to work with and are open to new ideas.” 

The Secret Martin Family Ingredient

While there are “secrets” to her process, Deb willingly shares the inspiration behind her apple pie recipe: a signed cookbook inscribed to her from another legend in the local food network, the renowned restaurateur and cookbook author, Betty Groff, who was at the vanguard of promoting regional cuisine and helped to put Pennsylvania Dutch cooking on the culinary map 60 years ago.  

More recently, Deb has completed the Pennsylvania Fair judging course, which qualifies her to judge competitions. Wisely, she gained an understanding of what criteria judges are looking for in competitions.

For hopeful bakers, she offers a few crumbs of wisdom: wait until the pie cools to slice it (as long as three hours). If entering a pie into a competition, never take a hot pie, which can become soggy from the steam. The third tenet is to drive carefully!

Deb at work in her mother’s kitchen.

$600 Pies – Yes, Pies

Due to her time investment, Deb refrains from baking pies by request. She did make an exception for the 60th Anniversary Gala of the Long’s Park Amphitheater Foundation in September. Deb, who is a supervisor at the park, donated an apple pie to the fundraising auction. With bated breath, she watched as bidding ensued, finally stopping at a whopping $600.

A layer of melted caramel – from Evans Candy – mingles with apple slices.

A master of showmanship, Deb then produced a second pie from behind the podium. She asked the second-highest bidder if she’d match the winning bid. The bidder did so without pause and Deb instantly doubled the total donations to $1,200. “The world record for an apple pie selling at auction is about $3,500,” says Deb, with a smile.

Dorothy’s Kitchen

Deb and I reconnected a year later. On an auspicious November morning, we regrouped at the Martin homestead, a preserved former dairy farm in Conestoga. Deb chose to bake her apple pie in her mother’s kitchen. None outside the Martin family are typically present for such an eventful occasion that is shrouded in baking secrets, the demands of excellence and a classic family tradition. On this morning, both Dorothy’s absence and presence could be felt. Having taken a fall over the summer, the need for round-the-clock care prompted a move to a nursing and rehab facility. 

Woven lattice delicately adorns the apple pie.

Dorothy epitomized farm life. She and her husband, Melvin H. Martin, assumed ownership of the farm more than 70 years ago. Determined to keep the farm in the family, she enrolled it in an agricultural preserve program. During the ’80s and ’90s, she operated stands at Southern, Central and West End markets, selling eggs, baked goods and vegetables. She entered her first fair competition (West Lampeter) in 1950, winning blue ribbons for her chow chow, sugar cookies and red zinnias. She was a life-long supporter of the 4-H program, always providing its benefit auction with a basket of her homemade jams and jellies. 

Additional caramel is drizzled on top of the pie.

Together, Dorothy and Deb brought home thousands of ribbons over the years, which serve as testament to the connection they forged through baking and other creative pursuits for the entirety of their shared lives. Their dynamic helped to shape one another and each other’s recipes, pushing themselves to new levels. That closeness is undoubtedly the secret ingredient in Deb’s baking, and on this November morning, it came in the form of baking in Dorothy’s kitchen. 

Pie dough baked in the form of leaves and flowers will decorate the top of this year’s caramel apple pie recipe.

Sadly, two weeks later, on Thanksgiving evening, Deb and Dorothy shared a final moment of togetherness. Deb held her mother’s hand as she passed away, days shy of her 95th birthday. Deb viewed her loss in baking terms, sharing with her Facebook friends that “I have a strong feeling God was short a Christmas cookie baker … and now he has a blue-ribbon winner.” 

The Pennsylvania Farm Show will be held January 7-14. For details, visit farmshow.pa.gov. 

For information about Cherry Hill Orchards, visit cherryhillorchards.com.

American Music Theatre

If you are looking for an opportunity to get out of the house this winter, American Music Theatre boasts a stacked performance lineup for the start of 2023. 

The 1,600-seat theatre hosts more than 200 live performances each year, ranging from Broadway tours to famous comedians to pop, country and rock legends. Thanks to the theatre’s convenient location on Route 30 in Lancaster, you can make a night of it by grabbing dinner and drinks before the show or even booking a staycation. What follows is a sampling of upcoming shows. 

Stayin’ Alive: One Night of The Bee Gees

January 20 at 7:30 p.m.

Complete with big-screen video clips, photos and dazzling imagery, Stayin’ Alive offers an exciting tribute to The Bee Gees, performing tracks such as Night Fever, How Deep Is Your Love, You Should Be Dancing and Stayin’ Alive.

Elvis Birthday Bash

January 21 at 2 & 7 p.m.

Celebrate the King of Rock and Roll’s birthday with Elvis impersonators Scot Bruce and Mike Albert, performing as the younger and older Elvis respectively. Join Mike Albert again on January 22 as he performs The Elvis Gospel Show with The Stamps Quartet at 3 p.m.

’50s Dance Party: The Music of Buddy Holly, The Big Bopper & Ritchie Valens

January 29 at 3 p.m.

John Mueller’s ’50s Dance Party is the official and authentic re-creation of Buddy Holly, Ritchie Valens and the Big Bopper’s final tour and the only show endorsed by the Holly, Valens and Richardson estates. Enjoy two hours of all the hit songs of the ’50s, including Peggy Sue, La Bamba, Rave On and more.

Boyz II Men

February 9 at 7:30 p.m.

Considered one of the most iconic R&B groups, Boyz II Men redefined the genre with their unique vocal harmonies and emotional ballads, including End of the Road, I’ll Make Love to You, One Sweet Day and Motownphilly.

Trace Adkins

February 10 at 7:30 p.m.

Since his debut in 1996, Trace Adkins has made his mark on the country music industry with 11 million albums sold, multiple Grammy nominations, CMT and ACM awards and many more achievements. His hit songs include You’re Gonna Miss This, Ladies Love Country Boys, Songs About Me, Just Fishin’ and Every Light in the House.

The Simon & Garfunkel Story

March 5 at 7 p.m.

The Simon & Garfunkel Story is a concert-style theatre show about two young boys from Queens who went on to become one of the most successful music duos. Using state-of-the-art video projection, lighting and a full live band, the show features all the hits such as Mrs. Robinson, Bridge Over Troubled Water and The Sound of Silence.

Brit Floyd

March 9 at 7:30 p.m.

Brit Floyd will return to the American Music Theatre stage to perform what is widely regarded as the world’s greatest rock tribute show, faithfully recreating the scale and pomp of the final 1994 Pink Floyd tour, complete with a light show, iconic circle screen, lasers, inflatables and theatrics.

Josh Turner

April 13 at 7:30 p.m.

Josh Turner’s distinctive baritone is one of country music’s most recognizable voices. His chart-topping songs include Your Man, All Over Me and Why Don’t We Just Dance.

The Temptations and The Four Tops

April 14 at 7:30 p.m.

During their six-decade career, The Temptations have charted numerous tracks including My Girl, Ain’t Too Proud to Beg, Get Ready, Papa Was a Rollin’ Stone and many others. The Four Tops teamed up in high school and spent over four decades becoming one of Motown’s most consistent hit-makers, including Baby I Need Your Loving, I Can’t Help Myself (Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch) and Reach Out (I’ll Be There).

Scotty McCreery

April 28 at 8 p.m.

After winning the 10th season of American Idol in 2011, Scotty McCreery achieved new heights with his deep, strong country voice and award-winning songs, including Five More Minutes, This Is It, I Love You This Big and more.

American Music Theatre is located at 2425 Lincoln Highway East in Lancaster. To view a full list of upcoming shows and buy tickets, visit amtshows.com.

Top 12 To-Dos for December 2022

1 Christmas at Stone Gables Estate | Through December 30

Photo courtesy of Stone Gables Estate.

Stone Gables Estate

Get in the holiday spirit at Stone Gables Estate, which will be hosting a variety of ongoing events this December. Stroll through the Christmas Village (December 3, 10 and 17) and enjoy fun activities and delicious treats. Enjoy a narrated train excursion on the Santa Express (December 17, 20-23) as it travels through the property. Their 3-mile Christmas Light Drive-Thru, featuring over 800,000 lights, will be open Tuesday-Saturday through December 30 (except Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve). Stone Gables is also home to the National Christmas Center, which is one of the largest collections of Christmas memorabilia in the world. The National Christmas Center will be open Thursday-Saturday through December 30 (except Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve). Tickets are required for all events and can be pre-purchased on their website. Information: stonegablesestate.com/public-events or 717-902-9791.

 

2 Christmas Spirit Light Show | Through December 31

Photo courtesy of Christmas Spirit Light Show.

Clipper Magazine Stadium

Enjoy hundreds of thousands of color-changing lights from the warmth of your car as you journey around a mile-long track. Tune into their radio station and watch the lights dance to Christmas classics. Tickets (per vehicle) can be pre-purchased online or at the entry booth. In addition to the light show, you can also enter the stadium to enjoy Christmas Tree Lane, where 100 decorated trees will represent local nonprofits. Purchase votes for your favorite trees and each vote will count as a donation to that tree’s charity. Visitors can also enjoy photos with Santa, caroling and festive food and drinks. Reindeer will even make an appearance on December 16th! Information: christmasspiritlightshows.com.

 

3 Terre Hill Christmas in the Park | December 2-4

Photo courtesy of Terre Hill Days Committee.

Terre Hill Community Memorial Park

Christmas lights will fill Terre Hill Park along with food, activities, vendors, entertainment, free children’s crafts, live ice carvings, horse-drawn carriage rides, Santa and more. Stroll through the walking trail to enjoy over 100 hand-made light decorations, as well as music and a live nativity. Also, visit with community organizations and browse vendors with holiday themed items in the Christmas Village. Certain activities and admission to the lighted walking trail require a small fee. Tickets for the lighted walking trail can be pre-purchased online. Parking and admission are free. Hours are 5-9 p.m. each night. Information: terrehilldays.com/christmas-in-the-park or 717-445-4581.

 

4 Christmas in the Park | December 2

Photo courtesy of Donald Reese.

Lititz Springs Park

Celebrate the holiday season at the band shell inside Lititz Springs Park with a unique holiday performance, the lighting of the Christmas tree, a carol sing and a special visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus. Featured performers will include the Warwick High School Concert Choir and Encore Dance Center. The free event starts at 6:30 p.m. and lasts around 30-40 minutes. Donations will be accepted for the upkeep of Lititz Springs Park. Information: lititzspringspark.org/christmas.

 

5 Christmas Tree Lighting Celebration | December 3

Photo courtesy of Manheim BIC.

Historic Manheim Square

Manheim’s historic square will be filled with music from local performers and caroling, food vendors and more as the town celebrates the start of the holiday season. The festivities kick off at 4:30 p.m. Be sure to bring new, unwrapped toys to donate to Toys for Tots, as well as non-perishable food items for the Manheim Food Pantry. Information: manheimbic.org/event/tree-lighting-celebration or 717-665-2133.

 

6 Winterfest | December 3

Courtesy of Main Street Mount Joy.

Downtown Mount Joy

During Winterfest, Main Street in Mount Joy will be shut down and filled with activities for the whole family to enjoy, including live music from Big Boy Brass, food, vendors and more. Santa and Mrs. Claus, Buddy the Elf, Cindy Lou Who, The Grinch and Scrooge will all be making appearances. Kids can also go on the Downtown Elf Hunt, which features 36 elves hidden throughout downtown businesses. Winterfest will start at 4 p.m. and end at 7 p.m. with the lighting of the Christmas tree. Information: mainstreetmountjoy.com/events or 717-653-4227.

 

 

7 The Marietta Candlelight Tour and Carriage Rides | December 4

Photo courtesy of Marietta Restoration Associates.

Downtown Marietta

Marietta Restoration Associates hosts one of the oldest, continuous holiday walking tours in Pennsylvania. From 11 a.m.-7 p.m., stroll through eight private homes and historical buildings decorated for the holidays. Tickets can be purchased in advance for a reduced rate ($20) but may also be purchased on the day of the tour for $25. Free parking and a convenient shuttle service will be available. In addition to the tour, Santa and Mrs. Claus will light the community tree outside Old Town Hall at 5 p.m. Lancaster Recumbent and McCleary’s Public House will also be sponsoring carriage rides from Benchfield Farms from 1-8 p.m. Rides are $25 per carriage if purchased by December 3 or $30 for walk-up purchases. Carriages comfortably accommodate up to four people. Pick-up and drop-off are located at Lancaster Recumbent. Carriage Ride Information: lancasterrecumbent.com/event/holiday-carriage-rides or 717-553-5834. Tour Information: mariettarestoration.org or 717-426-4048.

 

8 Christmas Village | December 9-10

Photo courtesy of Bird-in-Hand.

Bird-in-Hand Bakery & Café

Enjoy two days of fun, food and family festivities in Bird-in-Hand. On Friday from 3:30-7:30 p.m., meet Santa, take pictures with his reindeer and enjoy a s’mores bonfire starting at 5 p.m. On Saturday from 9 a.m.-12 p.m., mail your Christmas wishes to Santa, participate in crafts, meet Elsa and Anna from Frozen, enjoy Christmas carols and more. The first 75 children to arrive on Saturday will receive a free gift. Also, enjoy holiday shopping throughout the weekend at Bird-in-Hand businesses, as well as at the Vintage Revival Market that will be hosted by Mod*ish both days from 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Information: bird-in-hand.com/event/christmas-village or 717-768-8271.

 

9 Santa’s Workshop | December 10

Photo courtesy of Misfits On A Mission Relay For Life Team.

Garden Spot Fire Rescue

Hosted by Misfits On A Mission Relay For Life Team, this makers market will feature unique gifts for everyone on your list, delicious food and raffle prize drawings. Santa will also be in attendance from 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Proceeds from the day will benefit the American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life. They will also be collecting donations for Speranza Animal Rescue. Receive a free raffle ticket when you donate any of the items they have listed here. Information: Facebook or 717-354-2656.

 

10 Gifts That Give Hope | December 11

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Farm & Home Center

The 15th-annual Gifts That Give Hope Alternative Gift Fair offers opportunities to donate to local nonprofits in the name of loved ones (known as alternative gifts), as well as purchase ethically and sustainably sourced gifts from businesses with charitable backgrounds. For each alternative gift purchased, they will give you a greeting card, envelope and gift insert which describes the donation you purchased in your friend or family member’s honor. The fair will be open from 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Information: gifts-that-give-hope-lancaster.square.site.

11 Holiday Extravaganza | December 18

Photo courtesy of U Street Media.

Thaddeus Stevens College of Technology

U Street Media and LAACP Lancaster are partnering to spread some holiday cheer at their second-annual Holiday Extravaganza. This family-centered event will feature free haircuts, toy and bike giveaways, music, story time, food and much more. 12-4 p.m. Information: Eventbrite.

 

12 New Year’s Eve | December 31

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Various Locations

If you are looking for a fun way to ring in the new year, Lancaster City and Ephrata will be hosting celebrations. The Red Rose Drop will once again return to Downtown Lancaster! The celebration will begin at Binns Park at 8:30 p.m. and will feature live music and fireworks. Find more information at visitlancastercity.com. Ephrata will host its first-ever New Year’s Eve celebration from 9:30 p.m. to midnight. The Square in Downtown Ephrata will feature live music, dancing in the streets, fireworks and confetti, as well as a secret surprise. There will also be food, non-alcoholic beverages, a beer garden, activities and more. For details, visit mainspringofephrata.org.

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It’s a Wonderfully Fascinating Life!

Walk into Carolyn McGuigan’s apartment at Willow Valley Communities and you’ll think you’ve been transported to a glam penthouse in New York City. At holiday time, she takes it up a notch and fills it with beloved seasonal décor she has collected over the years. 

For her apartment at Willow Valley Communities, Carolyn worked with interior decorator, Anita Bowman, to downsize and retrofit furnishings and draperies from her townhouse. The loveseats that were in the lower level of the townhouse fit perfectly into the sitting area. The draperies were modified by Custom Drapery & Design in Willow Street. The dining table and chairs also made the move. Carolyn also chose to replicate the chili-pepper wall color. She credits Anita for finding the mixed-metal chandelier.

Simply put, Carolyn is an inspiration. She has more energy than people a quarter of her age. At 84, she is still taking pleasure in discovering the world, playing golf, volunteering her time and talents, tweaking her home’s décor and entertaining friends she has collected since moving to Lancaster almost 30 years ago. “I was always the ‘different one’ among my siblings,” she says of being the second born (among four). “I was the risk-taker, the one who thought outside the box. I just never fit the mold.” 

What a Life!

Carolyn is a native of Butler County, which is north of Pittsburgh. After graduating from high school, she headed for Penn State University, where she majored in what is now the Hotel, Restaurant and Institutional Management program. 

The loveseats enabled Carolyn to repeat the black-and-white color scheme she so loves. For holiday decorating, she embellishes the color scheme with red and silver accents and relies on tabletop trees and items she has collected over the years to bring a festive air to her home.

An interest in nutrition prompted Carolyn to change her focus and concentrate on becoming a dietitian. “That called for a fifth year of college,” she says. “My parents reminded me they agreed to pay for four years and I would have to figure out a way to pay for the fifth.” She turned to her advisor who suggested Carolyn take advantage of an internship with a Veterans Administration (VA) hospital in Los Angeles. It sounded like the perfect solution. 

Despite her parents’ wariness at the idea of their daughter moving to Southern California at the height of the “Swinging Sixties,” Carolyn was gung-ho to begin a new adventure. “Oh, my gosh, we had so much fun,” she says, referring to the other interns she befriended. “We were from all over the country and were all single. We had no money, so we entertained ourselves by going to the beach and camping at places like Yosemite.” 

A MacKenzie-Childs nutcracker echoes the black-and-white color scheme.

She also met her future husband, John “Jack” McGuigan, in Los Angeles. She and her fellow interns attended a Young Republicans function where, incredibly enough, she met a guy from Philadelphia. Sizing him up, Carolyn decided “Jack was no more a Republican than the Man in the Moon” and, like her and her friends, was probably there for the free food and drinks. “His brother had moved to L.A. Jack visited him and decided to stay,” she explains of his move west. He ultimately became an airplane pilot and later transitioned to real estate. They were married in California in 1969. 

Carolyn’s internship with the VA led to a life-long career in government. “Even though I had fun throughout my 20s, I was really focused on my career,” she notes. “Jack would see me bring work home and jokingly say, ‘I thought you were a government employee,’” she recalls. Looking back on her career with the VA, she says, “I loved every day of it.” 

Carolyn’s prized collection of Simon Pearce glass trees tops a table in the dining area.

From Los Angeles, Carolyn moved north to work at the VA hospital in San Francisco. By the ’70s, Jack suggested they move back to the East Coast in order to be closer to family. They settled in Chester County. Fortunately, Carolyn was able to transfer to the VA hospital in Coatesville, where she became the chief of nutrition food service. She ended her career at the VA hospital in Lebanon, where she was the head of patient care support. 

They bought a home in Downingtown and later built one in Parkesburg, which enabled Carolyn to indulge in her love of decorating. “I really became interested in interior design and decorating when I lived in L.A.,” she notes. She gravitated to contemporary styling. “I grew up in a house that was filled with old furniture,” she says. “It wasn’t antique furniture either; it was just old. I vowed I’d never have old furniture in my home.” 

The U-shaped kitchen lends itself to the open-concept layout that Carolyn has loved since living in California. The backsplash, quartz counters and pendant lighting add an element of sparkle to the space.

Welcome to Lancaster 

In the early ’90s, Jack was feeling restless and suggested they return to California, or move to Lancaster County. He died before they could reach a decision. Carolyn weighed her options and decided to move to Lancaster in order to be closer to work. “I didn’t know a soul,” she shares. She rented an apartment for several years and officially put down roots when she bought a home at Crossgates in Millersville in 2001. As it was still on the drawing board, she was able to customize the interior in order to achieve the open-concept California look she liked. She was excited to be able to furnish and decorate it to totally suit her taste. However, a hectic work schedule kept her from  transforming the house into a home. 

Carolyn visited Tileology and asked for something “hip” to create a dramatic backsplash for her new kitchen. The mirrored and metal tiles definitely answered the call!

Hoping to get inspired, Carolyn took in 2002’s Parade of Homes and fell in love with the décor she saw at a Charter Homes & Neighborhoods entry. “I asked who the decorator was but they would not tell me,” Carolyn recalls. She returned to the house several times but still had no luck in obtaining the name. “I pestered that poor girl to no end,” she laughs. 

Finally, she resorted to getting down on her hands and knees and peering under a piece of furniture in hopes of finding a tag that might identify the decorator’s name. Carolyn looked up and encountered the Charter rep. “I think that’s when she realized I was not one to give up and she finally agreed to share the decorator’s name,” Carolyn says. 

Carolyn loves to entertain and pulls out the stops from a visual perspective.

Needless to say, she was surprised to discover the decorator was Anita Bowman, who happens to be the mother of Rob Bowman, Charter’s founder and president. 

Anita, who heads Ambiance Interiors (formerly based in Moorestown, New Jersey, and now located in St. Augustine, Florida), was on-board to work with Carolyn. “I was in Lancaster a lot to do work for Charter, so working with Carolyn was not a problem,” Anita explains. The two designed a very chic, glam and comfortable townhouse that to this day is one of my favorite home projects (June 2009) to cover for the magazine. 

 

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“Carolyn has very specific taste – she likes what she likes,” says Anita. “We often met halfway between Lancaster and Moorestown for our meetings,” she recalls. “Halfway just happened to be Neiman Marcus in Valley Forge, Carolyn’s favorite store!” 

Over time, the two forged a special relationship. “I consider Carolyn to be a friend,” Anita says. “I got her style. She trusted me on that and when I’d tell her I found something she might like, she always told me to go ahead, since I was so in-tune with what she liked. She’d say, ‘If you like it, I’ll like it.’” Anita shares that she values the trust Carolyn has in her and says trust between a designer and a client helps to ensure a successful project. “That sense of trust doesn’t always happen,” she says. 

Like many people starting over, Carolyn was anxious to make her home a reflection of her taste and personality. In Carolyn’s case, she was going for what Anita calls “the wow factor. Carolyn is a vibrant person and she didn’t want a boring home,” Anita reflects. 

A cabinet painted by Donna Hughes is topped with bottlebrush trees and a cookie jar from the Christopher Radko Gallery at the former Doneckers store.

Anita sees a desire to start over –conveyed through our homes – expressed all the time, especially in instances of women becoming widows or going through divorce, or retirees setting out for places like Florida or even relocating to local retirement communities. Anita, who has lived in St. Augustine for the last three years, says, “I had one client move to New Jersey from Texas. She arrived with nothing, not even family photos. She just wanted to completely start over.” 

She’s also discovering that “by the time [transplants] arrive in Florida, they are ready to fully adopt their new lifestyle.” That starts with the décor of their homes. Traditional styling and dark wood can look very much out of place. Instead, transplants crave the light and airy coastal or tropical look. 

Carolyn couldn’t resist the sparkling poodle she came across at The Little House Shop.

In Carolyn’s case, she was ready to start over to a large degree but didn’t want to part with treasures such as her collection of MacKenzie-Childs enamelware – specifically black-and-white patterned Courtly Check pieces – decorative items from Michael Aram and Jack’s collection of model cars that he had built and painted. 

The enamelware would ultimately inspire the color scheme throughout the living areas. Carolyn’s love of animal print also figured into the design. “It’s a little bit like living on the wild side,” Carolyn said of her home’s décor. (The model cars were beautifully displayed in the lower level of the house.) The only departure was her bedroom, where traditional furnishings and a champagne color scheme created a serene getaway. 

Taking a cue from the main bedroom in her townhouse, Carolyn chose to take a more serene route and furnish and decorate her bedroom at Willow Valley with traditional pieces, as well as employ a champagne-hued color scheme.

Downsizing

Carolyn loved living at Crossgates but her sister and brother-in-law began to voice concern about her future. They loved living at Willow Valley Communities and encouraged Carolyn to consider moving there. The more she thought about it, the more such a move made sense. “I wasn’t getting any younger!” she laughs. 

Beribboned pillows and furry white deer decorate the bedroom at holiday time.

“It came as a surprise to hear from Carolyn and learn she was moving to Willow Valley and would need my help,” says Anita of the call she received six years ago. “I was still coming to Lancaster a lot to do work for Charter, so we fell right back into working together.” 

Technology also played a valuable role this time around, as Carolyn and Anita conducted meetings via FaceTime. Since remodeling would figure into the project, Willow Valley’s Design Studio and the CCS Building Group would be part of the team. 

Glass-fronted furnishings add to the glam aspect of the bedroom.

Carolyn being Carolyn, she wanted to redesign some aspects of the apartment’s layout, notably the kitchen, which was completely remodeled. “I went to Tileology and said I needed a hip backsplash,” she says of the mirrored and metallic tile she ultimately chose. The quartz countertops bring added sparkle to the space that is outfitted with black cabinetry and stainless appliances. 

Carolyn also had extra outlets installed throughout, including one in the living room floor. Columns were added to create a sense of separation for the open-concept layout that includes a foyer, the kitchen, a dining area and a living room. Door styles were also altered, with the one leading to the primary bedroom being switched out for a frosted-glass door. “The only thing we couldn’t change was the balcony,” says Anita. “It’s a shame it’s only accessible from the bedroom. It would have expanded the entertaining area if it had been placed off the living room.” 

Another keepsake from Doneckers: a novelty purse for the holidays.

While Carolyn would have loved to start completely over from a decorating perspective, she ultimately decided to replicate her beloved Crossgates home somewhat and continue with the black-and-white color scheme. The chili-pepper red walls were also repeated. “I hate white walls!” Carolyn exclaims.

Anita was also charged with a challenge she rarely is asked to undertake – help a client downsize and decide what will work and what won’t. “She was going from a 2,800-square-foot townhouse to a 1,300-square-foot apartment,” Anita relates. “The first step was to ask ourselves, ‘What do we have and what can be retrofitted to look new and fresh?’” she explains. 

Carolyn’s balcony is also decorated for the holidays with evergreen swags, a tabletop tree, seasonal throw pillows and colorful paintings from the artist, Christiane David.

It was decided the larger, traditional furnishings in the living room would not make the move. A large black lacquered buffet would also be eliminated. (Carolyn relies on Next to New to consign furnishings and decorative items. She also took a “car load” of china and crystal to Replacements, Ltd. in North Carolina for resale.) The plan called for the loveseats in the lower level, as well as the custom draperies and a few other furnishings to make the move, along with the dining table and chairs and other assorted pieces.  Carolyn also decided she would invest in new bedroom furniture.

Carolyn devoted the second bedroom in her apartment to the care and comfort of Lexi. Here, she continued the black-and-white color scheme. Stump’s Upholstery Design in Leola created the upholstery for Lexi’s crate.

Carolyn’s apartment also has a unique room she calls Lexi’s Boudoir. Lexi is Carolyn’s miniature poodle. “We always had standard poodles and I missed not having a dog around,” Carolyn says of launching a search for a poodle six years ago. “I thought a miniature would be easier for me to handle.” 

She began her search at the source and contacted the American Kennel Club for help and was directed to Joy Nachmias, a breeder of merit who owns and operates Murrmaid Poodles in Conestoga. (Two Murrmaid poodles won awards at Westminster in 2016 and 2017.) Carolyn wanted to adopt an older dog, but fell in love with 6-month-old Lexi, whose birthday is on New Year’s Day. Lexi went through obedience training at Kaye Ames and returns to Joy’s care at Joy’s Salty Dog Salon for grooming and pawdicures. “The residents here just love to see what color Lexi’s nails are after a trip to Joy’s,” Carolyn says. 

Carolyn rewards Lexi for her good behavior with a treat.

Lexi’s room, which continues the black-and-white color scheme, is outfitted with a custom crate and baskets filled with toys. Poodle-inspired art hangs on the walls. Carolyn adores Lexi and credits her for helping her weather the pandemic. “We’d go for walks a couple times a day and sometimes we’d just get in the car and go for long rides,” Carolyn says. “It was nice to have her to talk to and keep me company.” 

Embracing Life 

Now that life has returned to a semblance of normalcy, Carolyn is back to her routine of volunteering (Penn Medicine Lancaster General Hospital, the Lancaster Symphony Orchestra, the Demuth Museum and Fulton Theatre are among her favorites), playing golf (she gave up tennis at age 65 and took golf lessons and now plays regularly at Meadia Heights, Four Seasons and Overlook), attending church (Highland Presbyterian), shopping (The Little House Shop in Wayne is a favorite destination), taking advantage of events and clubs offered at Willow Valley Communities (“If you’re not involved here, it’s your fault,” she says of having so much to do) and entertaining friends and neighbors in her home. “I’ve always loved Christmas, so I continue to decorate and entertain,” she remarks. “I had so many get-togethers last year that by the time January arrived, I was worn out!” 

Deer, trees and greenery fill the windows at holiday time.

Carolyn says that deciding to follow her sister’s advice and move to Willow Valley Communities has provided her with the best of all worlds. “I have no worries here. I don’t have to take care of a house any longer. If I have health issues, Willow Valley is there for me. I have friends here. I can come and go. I can get out and explore, which I think is important.” She also stays engaged with what is happening in the world. As an octogenerian, Carolyn recognizes that change is inevitable and holds the opinion, “You have to embrace it and work within it in a positive way.” 

Willow Valley Communities, Celebrations, Decorations & Illuminations: It’s a Team Effort

At Willow Valley Communities, residents experience all aspects of the holiday season – the decorations, the festivities, the glow and the sweet treats – without having to do any of the work!

The expansive courtyard that is surrounded by Willow Valley Communities’ Manor North residences transforms from a favorite place to relax and socialize during the summer into a winter wonderland at holiday time.

Willow Valley Communities, a premier 55-plus community in Lancaster County, has always been known for the extraordinary lifestyle its residents enjoy. Award-winning amenities, hundreds of opportunities for clubs, entertainment, classes and other activities fill residents’ days as they choose. It’s their Life Lived Forward culture: residents enjoy maintenance-free and carefree lifestyles every day – and every season – all year round.

Perhaps it’s during the winter season when this is most apparent. Willow Valley Communities pulls out all the stops to transform its 210 meticulously landscaped acres into a gleaming and festive winter wonderland. Best of all, residents can enjoy it all without lifting a finger, getting on a ladder or fighting with frustrating tangled lights! Many residents agree that as much as they love holiday decorations, they don’t miss the work that was involved. Over the years it became a chore dragging all those boxes from the attic or basement and setting everything up. Climbing up on a ladder to install lights and other decorations could also get dangerous.

Dozens of towering trees decorate the buildings around the Willow Valley Communities campus, bringing holiday enjoyment to residents and their guests. Seen here is a tree in The Clubhouse.

Resident Marlyn Kinnamon, who has lived at Willow Valley Communities for 27 years, says that she does not miss the time-consuming job of decking the halls of her home herself. Marlyn says she appreciates not having to schedule the days to get it all done. “I need that time to work out with my personal trainer at Willow Valley Communities’ Fitness Center!” she chuckles.

Marlyn says she enjoys the decorations she sees at almost every turn. “Everywhere … they’re just fantastic,” she marvels. But, she does admit that she has one favorite place to sit to reflect on the beauty of the season – the Overlook Artisanal Coffeehouse and Wine Bar, which is located on the third floor of a building in the Manor North Community and overlooks the glass atrium that provides a panoramic view of the large outdoor courtyard. 

The view from The Overlook Artisanal Coffeehouse and Wine Bar takes in the lights and water features of the courtyard.

At holiday time, the courtyard is decorated with hundreds of twinkling lights. A gazebo, with its outdoor kitchen as the go-to venue for summer cookouts, is transformed with numerous lights that glisten under a newly fallen snow once winter winds come blowing. Nearby is a small bridge over a pond, the scene of many a photograph, festooned with holiday greenery and even more lights. Sometimes, Marlyn chooses to just enjoy some quiet time to herself. “The lights are most beautiful right after a snowfall,” she describes. “I just love sitting there, relaxing, relishing in the fact that I can simply enjoy the wonder of it all. It’s so freeing to enjoy the beauty of the season without worrying about having to shovel a driveway or a sidewalk!”

The Transformation

Just how does all this glistening wonder happen at Willow Valley Communities? Rather than by Santa’s elves, maintenance managers, Dave Clingan and Tim Ryan, along with their teams, help create the holiday magic. They get straight to work after Thanksgiving by installing thousands of twinkling lights and hundreds of feet of greens, as well as setting up dozens of trees throughout campus.  

Inside the glass-enclosed atrium, trees, poinsettias and other holiday decorations reflect the season.

Grounds Manager Joel Schock contributes significantly to the process and says his team begins planning months in advance, ordering poinsettias and the live trees. When the almost 400 poinsettias are delivered, they are quickly arranged around campus. Some of the live Christmas trees can be as tall as 13 feet. Joel says his team has a lot of experience picking out the perfect tree. “A lot of the trees are viewed on all sides, so we’ve become pretty expert!” he says of selecting perfect specimens. 

Once all the trees are strung with lights, Willow Valley Communities’ resident life coordinators team with groups of residents to take over the decorating process. Resident Life Coordinator Michelle Murch notes that residents enjoy cookies, hot chocolate and holiday sing-alongs as the trees are decorated throughout campus – whether they are actually decorating or simply supervising!

The holidays are synonymous with sweet treats. At Willow Valley Communities, residents can call upon Kristin Yeager of Corner Sweets Bakery for their dessert and entertaining needs.

The winter holiday season is not only beautiful at Willow Valley Communities, but it is also delicious! Bakery chef, Kristin Yeager, of the Corner Sweets Bakery says, “I thoroughly enjoy creating new and delectable treats themed both in flavor and decoration to each holiday. The residents are a joy to bake and create for, and they give me a lot of creative freedom. And, afterwards, of course, I always look forward to hearing how they tasted!”

For more information, visit willowvalleycommunities.org. 

Have You Heard!
Lancaster County was named the “Best Place to Retire” in the United States, according to U.S. News & World Report’s latest survey. The rankings were announced in early November and are based on factors such as housing costs, tax rates, healthcare and happiness. It’s also notable that for the first time, Pennsylvania, with five metro areas ranking in the Top 10, outperformed the perennial winner, Florida. For details, visit usnews.com.